Just a reminder to self that when I have multiple forms or components on a page and I want a component to send a backend request and not lose state I just do this in the controller.

    public function detachFaceBookDataFromLike(FacebookLike $facebookLike) {
        $validate = request()->validate([
           'ids' => ['required', 'array']
        ]);

        $facebookLike->facebook_data()->detach($validate['ids']);

        request()->session()->flash('flash.banner', 'Updated');
        return back();
    }

Then it will show the message (this is thanks to JetStream) and it will preserve the state I care about like a filter in the url (query string) etc